Carmelite Spirituality: Embracing Silence

 Carmelite Spirituality: Embracing Silence

    Carmelite spirituality is profoundly rooted in the experience of silence, tracing its origins to the biblical figure of Elijah, the Father of Carmel. In 1 Kings 19:12, Elijah’s transformative encounter with God is not marked by grandiose phenomena such as thunder, wind, or fire, but by “a still small voice.” This narrative shows that for Carmelites, silence is more than the absence of sound; it signifies a deeply immersive state of attentive listening, openness, and receptivity. Sacred silence cultivates an environment in which God can reveal Himself, thereby grounding the Carmelite tradition in the contemplative stillness experienced on Mount Horeb. It is within this sacred silence that God communicates with the soul, enabling profound spiritual insights and encounters.
St. Teresa of Avila: Silent Loving Attention
    St. Teresa of Avila offers a rich and nuanced perspective on the role of silence in prayer and spirituality. She sees silence not as a mere absence of words but as an essential form of presence, an invitation to deeper communion with God. Teresa eloquently states that “Prayer is an intimate sharing between friends,” emphasising the relational depth of our interaction with the Divine. In her understanding of silence, she conveys that the quintessence of prayer lies in loving, attentive engagement with God, who resides within our hearts. 
    While Teresa acknowledges the significance of verbal prayers, she insists they pale in comparison to the love at the centre of this relationship. She describes the simplest form of prayer as “a gaze of love,” encouraging seekers to refrain from labouring over elaborate prayer scripts. Instead, she invites them to “look at Him”, a profound act that fosters connection without words. In her advanced teachings, Teresa describes this silence as a passive, receptive state. It is a gentle quietude, often characterised by the absence of concrete images or thoughts. Nevertheless, she encourages even novices to engage in interior silence, advocating a heartfelt recollection that leads to an intimate awareness of God’s presence.
St. John of the Cross: Silence as Purification
    St. John of the Cross deepens understanding of silence by exploring its intrinsic relationship with darkness, mystery, and the unknown. He famously states, “In order to arrive at what you do not know, you must go by a way you do not know.” John regards silence as a profound purging force that intricately refines both the senses and the intellect. He recognises that God often acts in the most transformative ways when the soul is enveloped in stillness and quietude. 
    For St. John of the Cross, silence is not merely a void to be filled but an active consent to God’s divine action within the soul. He warns against the human tendency to cling to words, images, or emotional experiences, underscoring that true silence is defined by a loving faith that neither grasps nor demands comprehension. He beautifully portrays silence as the essence of divine communication, stating, “The Father spoke one Word, which was His Son, and He speaks it always in eternal silence.” This indicates that authentic communication from God transcends the limitations of human language.
St. Thérèse of Lisieux: Silent Trust
    St. Thérèse of Lisieux exemplifies a childlike, unwavering confidence in her approach to silence and prayer. She often engaged in communion with God without the need for verbal articulation, succinctly expressing her spiritual experience with the phrase, “I say nothing, I love Him.” Thérèse’s understanding of silence reflects simplicity, trust, and a deep surrender to God’s will. 

    She teaches that silence is accessible to everyone, irrespective of one’s spiritual maturity. Thérèse asserts that “It is enough to love,” emphasising that even when distracted or spiritually weak, those moments can still be lovingly offered to God through the lens of silence. This perspective affirms the redemptive nature of loving trust, allowing even the most humble offerings to resonate with divine significance.

 St. Elizabeth of the Trinity: Interior Silence
    St. Elizabeth of the Trinity presents silence as a vital aspect of indwelling recollection. She emphasises the need for believers to “remain in silence under the gaze of God,” underscoring the importance of cultivating a conscious awareness of God's presence within a sacred space. Elizabeth delineates silence into three critical dimensions: the silence of thoughts, the silence of imagination, and the silence of self-will. Each facet serves a unique purpose in fostering deeper intimacy between the soul and the Divine.
    Through this multifaceted understanding of silence, the soul can become a “praise of glory,” a vessel in which God may dwell freely and authentically. This dynamic relationship enriches communion with God, strengthening the believer’s spiritual journey.
Practical Carmelite Method of Silent Prayer
    Engaging in Carmelite silent prayer can be structured through practical steps that guide the seeker towards a deeper experience of divine connection. 
1. Enter Silence: Begin by finding a quiet space to sit still. Allow yourself to become aware of God’s presence, both within and around you. It is crucial to let go of distractions, both those from the outside world and those that arise within your mind, so everything can settle into quiet.
2. Loving Gaze: Shift your focus gently towards God, which may involve using a simple word or a passage of Scripture as a focal point, provided it aids your concentration. The essence of this step is to maintain a loving and attentive disposition towards God.
3. Consent: Embrace silence without the need to force it. Accept whatever emotional or mental state you find yourself in, be it dryness, spiritual darkness, or tranquillity, and see it as part of your personal journey with God. 
4. Return with Humility: When distractions arise, and your mind wanders, return to the practice of silence gently. It is important to engage in self-compassion rather than self-criticism, acknowledging that wandering thoughts are part of the process.
Signs of Authentic Carmelite Silence
    Authentic Carmelite silence is marked by indicators that reflect the depth and quality of the experience. It is characterised by an absence of mental distraction, a profound sense of peace, heightened awareness of God’s presence, and openness to divine communication. Moreover, it fosters a growing intimacy with God, marked by trust and loving abandonment, revealing the transformative power of silence in the spiritual life of those devoted to Carmelite spirituality.
    The Carmelite way of prayer, deeply rooted in the practice of silence, offers a powerful, transformative, and relational experience for those who engage in it. This approach is illuminated by the insights of various saints who have exemplified and articulated its essence in their spiritual journeys. 
    This Carmelite silence isn't just a technique to learn; it is a silence filled with love and a desire to connect with God. It guides us toward a closer relationship with the divine, leading to spiritual growth and fulfilment. As a timeless piece of wisdom within the Carmelite tradition beautifully states, “Silence is the language God speaks; everything else is a poor translation.” This powerful quote captures the core of silent prayer as a sacred dialogue that nourishes the soul and changes the heart.

Dr Nicholas Macedon, OCD, 

Jeeva Jyothi Carmelite Institute of Spirituality (JJCIS),

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